Disturbed thoughts…. Part I

It’s been a long time that I have written something over here…. I was busy with my project works and life. After a long gap, I got to speak with you once again. I thank my God for this beautiful chance given 🙂 You must be wondering about the title I had given to a blog post that is been written after a long gap… Yes, you are right, my post is titled as ‘Disturbed emotions’, coz I am sharing the thoughts that disturbed me recently. There are many of them.
I will start with the most recent one. It’s gender equality. I know guys will fret at this word by raising their eyebrows, and girls may smile a bit. I know it’s an age old issue. What made me discuss about it, is the attitude of many men towards the women. I will never ever say attitude of the male race towards the female race, as it will be putting many of my good friends down. I write this to address only those people with this attitude.

I have been reading about the statements made by Mukesh Singh, one of the rapist in the Nirbhaya rape case. Those words ticked my inner soul like many others.  A rapist and a murderer was speaking about the moral of the woman he RAPED, WOUNDED AND MURDERED (well, he is uneducated thing, so there won’t be any surprises about his remarks.) It made me think about the attitude that many of the men has towards women. I am addressing these words only to those men.

“MEN, YOU CAN’T DEGRADE THE VALUE OF THE WOMEN, WHEN IT IS A WOMAN, WHO UNDERWENT THE WHOLE PAIN OF LABOUR TO GIVE YOU A LIFE INTO THIS WORLD. WHEN IT IS WOMAN’S CRY AND THE KILLING PAIN THAT GAVE YOU THE BREATH, YOU CAN’T UNDERESTIMATE THE VALUE OF A WOMAN, HER LIFE AND HER DREAMS. IF THAT WOMAN WHO GAVE YOU BIRTH, DESTROYED YOU IN THE WOMB ITSELF, MAYBE WE MAY NOT HAVE TO BEAR YOU DEROGATORY REMARKS ABOUT US. BUT, A LOVING MOTHER , BORE YOU FOR NINE MONTHS, GAVE YOU BIRTH, DESPITE THE WORST PAIN IN THE WORLD, NURTURED YOU AND CARED YOU. SO, HOW DARE YOU REMARK ABOUT THE FREEDOM, CULTURE, DREAMS AND VALUES OF US WOMEN? WHEN YOU ARE REMARKING ABOUT OUR MORALS IN A NEGATIVE WAY, REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE GIVING AWAY YOUR MORALS. WHEN YOU ONLY SEE US AS SLAVES AND SERVANTS OR AS PIECE OF MEAT, DON’T EVER EXPECT US TO RESPECT YOU OR LOVE YOU THE WAY YOU DESERVE. NOW THESE MEN MAY ASK THE QUESTION, HOW CAN SERVING YOUR FAMILY MAKE YOU A SLAVE?? IT WILL NEVER MAKE US A SLAVE WHEN WE DO IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF OUR HEART, WHICH IS WHAT EVERYONE OF US DO ALL THE TIME.”

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So, it was not the evil mind of you and your friends, which decided to trap, injure and kill a woman cruelly, that was responsible. It was not you cruel hearts that decided to touch a woman without her permission, which was FAR MORE responsible?

Again these words are not applicable to the entire male race, coz then I have to condemn the loving men in my life who isaaa willing to even give up their life for us, who loves us and respect us for who we are. Many of them are sweating in the hot sun, staying hungry and protecting their family by giving their life and blood. Many husbands out there, spend months away from their family, which they cherish to the core of their soul. Many fathers out there, cuddle their daughters and protect them from the evil world. Many men out there, support their life partner for her dreams, cherish her soul, protect her with his life and love her to the bottom of his heart. These men don’t have the so-called male-ish ego which says that, only if you rule your woman, you will be called a man. Instead, these men earn RESPECT and LOVE from their women and their family as the “REAL MAN” of the family. I include, my father, many of my uncles, many of my brothers and my friends in this category. I give a big salute and respect to all the real men out there, Know that you are valued, respected, loved and cherished by the women like us 🙂  adios! 🙂

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Experience the power of prayer!

After reading a lot of blogs regarding prayer, I thought I would emphasize on the power of prayer. First I will show you certain links that I stumbled upon, while researching this quest of mine.

prayWell, I know this is a bit long list. But I want to ensure that you get the right impression and can practice what I try to show. 🙂 . Nowadays, I feel that our faith is growing weak, and prayers are growing poor. It can be because of the advent of technology on our fingertips! I can feel the growing problems in every houses. I cannot give the exact reason why bad things happen to good people. But I can tell something that can help you. My father has often told me, that the only solution to his loneliness in the gulf deserts in years of 1980 were his prayers. In the times of his helplessness with his new family and a new baby (me! 🙂 ), he often looked above. He has told me that not a prayer of his, that has been prayed in great faith, has left unanswered. I should point out that the great wealth of our family is our prayers 🙂 1491719_583798611718690_2885240096255170997_n

No one can please God, without immense faith, is what is told in the christian scriptures. “If you trust in the Lord, you are safe. Pro29:25” “Do not fear; I will help you, Isa 41:13″ These are the words from the Holy Bible given by God himself. Throughout the Holy Bible God has given us this promise! Even if you explore outside the Holy Book, You can see faith in the universe as the important part. They say that if you have faith in universe, You can get where you want to be. Or more importantly, faith in yourself, (you might have heard that!), can help you to get where you want to be. They all are speaking about one thing. FAITH. that’s the simple thing even God  told us. He just twisted it in a more better way “Have faith in Me!” is what he was telling throughout the scripture. Have FAITH IN HIM AND HE WILL LEAD THE WAY. To test the faith, you can see him giving lots of trials to the believers the Holy Bible. When they overcame the trials, they were rewarded in abundance for their endurance.

A lot of negative thoughts have been swirling inside my head for a long time. I confess that I have personally witnessed my Lord’s help a lot of  time, when things were going wrong for me, STILL I was under doubt. I wrote this post to myself and people like me, who needs constant support and encouragement. I want to let you know, if you cry out to him sincerely with your broken heart, none of your prayers will go unanswered. I remember my dad’s words from an old e-mail of his “Pray to God sincerely, and he  show you the way. he show your future ahead. he wrote in his broken english. Those words touched my heart deeply.

This is perhaps an important post of mine. I wanted to write these thoughts long back. I never saw an opportunity to bring it forefront. Now I gave this thoughts to you in the hope that it will be reached, read, grasped and meditated by you! Hope I will be able to fulfill that quest 🙂

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